Pregnancy and cardiac care
After Tammy Hayward found out she was pregnant in 2017, she drove an hour south from her home in Leesburg, Florida to an abortion clinic in Orlando to get the abortion pill. But the facility did not accept Medicaid, so in the parking lot, she frantically searched for places to have an abortion. She ended up calling the Leesburg Pregnancy and Family Care Center.
Director Wanda Kohn picked up the phone and, after hearing her situation, urged Hayward to stop as the center was on its way home. She has accepted.
In the centre’s consulting room, Hayward shared her story: she already had three children over the age of 10. Pregnancy made her sick day and night, and she was struggling financially while trying to hold office and part-time jobs. position at Red Lobster. The baby’s father was unemployed and addicted to drugs. In addition, she was 41 and was afraid of having another miscarriage. In her mind, this was not the right time to have another baby.
Hayward’s story reflects the attitude Kohn sees in many women who come to her pregnancy center these days: they only see the reasons why they cannot continue with their pregnancy and think those reasons excuse their decision. to abort. Kohn, the 2007 Daniel of the Year from WORLD, thinks this reflects a heart problem where they value their own wisdom rather than that of God. This is a change from the past when many women sought abortions due to the stigma of getting pregnant outside of marriage.
Kohn would know – that’s the situation she found herself in at 17, when she had her own abortion to keep her parents and the community from embarrassing her pregnancy. At the time, she didn’t see her current crisis far enough to understand that one day she would regret her decision.
Twelve years later, in 1989, Kohn began volunteering at the Pregnancy and Family Care Center. In the 1980s and 1990s, many women came to the center for pregnancy tests. Now that women can buy pregnancy tests for $ 5 at a local convenience store, women often come for ultrasound referrals from the center.
âWhen I first started volunteering, she was a scared little girl who didn’t know what to do, and you offer her motherhood,â Kohn said. But today women “just don’t want to be told [them] What to do. â¦ In the decision to end the life of their baby, these women feel justified.
During Hayward’s visit, Kohn showed him a box of tiny rubber baby models depicting the baby’s growth stages. She urged Hayward to look beyond her temporary concerns and allow God to overcome this unplanned pregnancy.
After meeting Kohn, Hayward told her employer that she was pregnant and was considering an abortion. The company offered to pay for his abortion because Medicaid would not cover it. But she continued to visit Kohn at the pregnancy center, and the image of those little rubber babies stuck in her mind.
Two and a half weeks later, Hayward turned down his employer’s offer. She had decided to keep her baby.
Hayward also began volunteering at the center, and she and her 11-year-old daughter studied Bible studies there. Over the weekend, they joined Kohn and her husband for services at the First Baptist Church in Leesburg, the church that started the pregnancy center. His daughter was baptized. A few months later, Hayward welcomed his daughter Bella into the world.
“[Kohn] let me know how the Bible views it, âHayward said. Kohn helped her understand that killing her baby was not her choice and that she was responsible to God for everything she did.
Kohn said she often spoke to her clients about God, explaining the gospel to them and telling them that God cared about them and their babies. âYou don’t have to like being pregnant. You can be angry, âshe told them. But, as long as they come before God with a teachable heart and with a desire to keep their babies, “God begins to work.”
âIn many of these cases, the problem is not abortion,â she added. âAbortion is just one symptom of a heart problem. “